Things We Wish We Had Known Before Our Child Became an Adult

In a recent Instagram post, Crystal Paine shared her thoughts on the joys and challenges of having an adult child. This sparked a conversation that led to a podcast episode where she and her husband discussed their experiences and lessons learned as they navigate this new phase of parenting.

As they reflect on their journey with their adult child, Paine and her husband share the ups and downs of watching their kids grow and learn to navigate life on their own. They talk about the importance of letting go as a parent and allowing their children to handle challenges themselves, even when it’s difficult to watch them struggle.

One key takeaway from their conversation is the importance of teaching kids to be self-sufficient and giving them the tools to confront problems on their own. Paine also shares her goal for a “slowed-down summer” and how she plans to make it happen.

Throughout the episode, they touch on topics such as communication in marriage, the value of starting the day with a walk and prayer, and the rewards and challenges of parenting older children. Paine also recommends a book she recently read and loved, “Tired of Being Tired” by Jess Connolly.

Whether you’re about to launch your kids into adulthood, have already done so, or are in the midst of parenting younger children, this conversation is sure to resonate with you. It’s a reminder to trust and rely on God as you navigate the ever-changing landscape of parenting.